We would like to share some important information with you about how to start anal sex. First of all, don’t copy what you see in porn. It is important to properly prepare for the first experience so that it does not spoil your mood later on.
Hygiene
The easiest way to take care of hygiene is to go to the bathroom 30-60 mins before sex and clean your anal area with warm water and soap or with toilet wipes.
The other option is to use an enema, made especially to clean this area. It is important not to use too much water because you do not want to stimulate bowel movement.
Also you do not want to use the enema too often because the water dries the tissues. It is better to focus on having a fiber high diet and keep hydrated.
By consuming high-fiber foods and adequate amounts of fluids, you can support your digestive system, which also helps maintain cleanliness.
How to get started
It is very important to get aroused before penetration, start slowly, and don’t forget about foreplay, as the muscles need time to relax.
You can start with massaging the area from the outside with fingers or a vibrating toy. Breathing can help you to relax and get in the mood also. You need to advance step by step, and keep in mind to use loads of lube.
Do NOT use a numbing cream because you won’t feel your body’s reaction.
You can lay a towel on the bed,if it gets a little messy.
The most important thing is to communicate all your feelings, if something is unpleasant or painful, just stop, try something else, it’s meant to be pleasurable!
Proper lubrication
Water-based lubricant
It’s good in all situations, doesn’t damage toys, and is easy to clean. However, since it’s water-based, it absorbs over time, so it’s worth using more of it and making sure to keep a supply.
Silicone-based lubricant
Do NOT use them with silicone toys. It is perfect to use with natural materials or penetration with a penis. It doesn’t get absorbed so you can use less. It can be cleaned by soapy water.
We primarily recommend this type of lubrication for natural materials or penetration with a penis.
Oils
Coconut oil for fingering! Coconut or almond oil can be perfect for anal if you do NOT use latex condoms, because they make the condoms break. Other mineral oils, like baby oil or vaseline are drying the tissues so they are NOT recommended. Also oils are not recommended to use with silicone toys.
In any case, we recommend that you avoid scented and flavored products, as this area is very sensitive. If you feel that it is necessary for rimming, choose a very high quality flavored product!
There are lube applicators on the market which help you distribute the products evenly.
Aftercare
The first anal is memorable so make sure that it is a good experience for both of you. After you take care of cleaning yourselves, take time to talk about it openly so the next time is going to be even better.