Below, we have collected some myths about masturbation and sex toys that still come back to haunt us on social media or in the media.
We’re not talking about the old nonsense about “masturbation makes you blind” or “hairy palms.” Hopefully, everyone knows that such rumors were created to control and contain human sexuality in the past. But the myths that are prevalent today are still with us, and they’re still about control.
Let’s list our 3 most important myths!
MYTH: VIBRATORS MAKE THE CLITORIS LESS SENSITIVE
Myth: SEX TOYS ARE TASTELESS
MYTH: MASTURBATION MEANS YOU DON’T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER
MYTH: VIBRATORS MAKE THE CLITORIS LESS SENSITIVE
Many of us have our own method of clitoral stimulation. Vibrators oscillate at about 200 oscillations per minute. This vibration is usually the most reliable way to reach orgasm faster and easier.
However, vibration doesn’t make the clitoris immune to other types of stimulation. It may take longer to reach climax than using fingers or rubbing against something soft, but variety is the spice of life, and changing up your masturbation styles is a great way to explore new avenues.
Despite more and more people working to break down taboos, female masturbation is still governed by the fear-mongering myth that vibrators numb the clitoris, making it difficult or even impossible to climax any other way.
A study of over 2,000 women debunked this myth. It found that “frequent vibrator use among women is associated with health benefits and positive sexual function, with few side effects.”
Instead of supporting negative effects, the study found that vibrator use has huge positives!
Such as:
- Improved orgasm
- Increased desire/arousal
- Increased wetting
- The pain has decreased.
- Users are more likely to participate in gynecological examinations and self-examinations.
Most women (71.5%) reported never experiencing any sexual symptoms related to vibrator use. A small percentage of women reported temporary numbness, but this also went away within a day.
Using a powerful vibrator for a long time can make you a little numb or even hypersensitive, but it’s like clapping enthusiastically after an amazing show – your hands will go numb for a while, but the feeling will return. It’s a small price to pay to experience the greatest show in the world! 🙂
[The study concluded: “These data suggest that clinicians should recommend vibrator use to improve sexual function as a response to patients’ sexual problems.”]
Myth: SEX TOYS ARE TASTELESS
Long gone are the days of dildos with big bulging veins and scratchy foreskins. If you’re into toys like these, that’s fine, but we’re glad we have a choice.
If you’re shopping for sex toys today, you’ll find stylish vibrators like those from designers like Iroha, We-Vibe, and Je Joue. These toys are too pretty to hide, so they’re worth displaying on your shelf or on top of your nightstand!
MYTH: MASTURBATION MEANS YOU DON’T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER
No, that’s not true. Most people masturbate even when they’re in a relationship and sex with their partner is awesome. In fact, solo play can actually improve your sex life with your partner.
Taking time to masturbate can help you discover what you like, what you enjoy, and what you don’t like. You can then discuss this with your partner and relive the magic together.