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<\/div>\nOkay, but how do we do this now?
As a first step, let’s initiate a conversation about our desires and fantasies under appropriate circumstances. Let this be the platform where our curiosity, doubts, and fears find understanding and listening ears. If communication has started, but we still feel timid, it is worth choosing together from the offerings of online sex shops. At this time, desires and fantasies can also be discussed and we can discuss this in a truly intimate environment, safely. Then, if our curiosity and courage win out, we can visit a sex shop in person. In the physical reality of the offerings, we can also discuss who has what preferences, who would like to try what. And it is also okay if the process slows down here and we just taste the alternatives for a while. Then, if we decide together to use an aid, it can open up a wide repertoire of games. We can keep control with ourselves or let our partner take over. We can rely on each other, we can enjoy being able to relax. <\/p>\n
If we use it alone, then there is an opportunity for longer, more in-depth experimentation: what works, how is it best? Don’t worry, there is no straight path to getting used to it. If our relationship provides emotional security, if there is still intimacy between the partners, if the goal is not to “replace” or humiliate the other, but to experience joint pleasure, then sex toys can serve as a great
supplement and, by the way, not as a “replacement toy”.
The mind needs novelty. And sex toys make sex diverse and fun. <\/p>\n
Katalin Katona
sexual psychologist
one of the founders of the D\u00e1mia Sexual Therapy Center<\/p>\n
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